The /me command when overused is polarizing issue. It can be very annoying to some players, and the staff are just trying to protect those silent, yet annoyed by spam people.
The solution I can do however, is the same one I used back in the day for /gz and /f, which is making a global cooldown/charge system. How those commands work is, every 15 seconds the server gains a "gz" or "f" token. The server can only hold 5 of these tokens at a time. When one of the commands is used, it consumes one of them, and if there aren't any left, the command fails. That's why you can /gz spam somebody for getting something cool, but the chat isn't full of tons of useless /gz or /f messages.
So basically, give me likes + hearts and shit if you think that's a good solution for /me as well.